How to Choose the Perfect Jewellery Gift

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How to Choose the Perfect Jewellery Gift (Without Losing Your Mind)

There’s just something magical about giving jewellery. It’s not just a gift—it’s a memory, a keepsake, a quiet I see you moment wrapped in a little velvet box. Whether it’s a birthday, an anniversary, or simply a way to say “you matter,” finding the right piece can feel a bit overwhelming. But don’t stress—I’ve got you.

Let me tell you, I’ve been there. A few years ago, I bought a pair of rose gold earrings for my best friend’s 30th. I agonised over the choice for weeks, and when she opened them, she teared up. Turns out, they reminded her of a pair her mum used to wear. That’s when I realised jewellery is more than just pretty—it’s personal. So here’s how to pick a piece that hits all the right notes.


Start With the Occasion

The occasion sets the tone for your gift. Is it a casual “thinking of you” moment, or a milestone like a wedding or graduation?

Here’s a quick cheat sheet:

  • Birthdays – Think personalised name necklaces, charm bracelets or necklaces, or cubic zirconia rings with a touch of sparkle

  • Anniversaries – Hearts, infinity symbols, charm necklaces with meaningful pendants, or engraved bangles that say forever

  • Weddings – Elegant cubic zirconia studs or a dainty bracelet with shimmering detail

  • Graduations – Sleek, minimalist pieces or charm necklaces symbolising new beginnings and personal growth

  • Mother’s Day – Personalised name necklaces, charm bracelets with family-related motifs, or engraved jewellery with children’s initials

  • Christmas – Go timeless—cubic zirconia studs, layered necklaces, or festive charm jewellery that’s wearable all year round


Think About Their Style (Not Yours)

We’ve all done it—picked something we loved and hoped they’d love too. But jewellery is super personal, so it’s all about them.

Quick style guide:

  • Classic – Simple cubic zirconia studs or dainty chains

  • Minimalist – Geometric shapes or barely-there rings

  • Boho – Think natural stones, layered textures, and earthy vibes

  • Vintage – Old-school glam with a bit of romance—lockets, antique-style rings

  • Bold – Chunky hoops, asymmetrical designs, something with serious personality

🪄 Top tip: Take a scroll through their Insta or peek at what they wear daily. Clues are everywhere.


Pick the Right Metal (It Matters More Than You Think)

Gold or silver? Rose gold? Mixed metals? Choosing the right metal is half the battle. Some people are super loyal to one look, so pay attention.

  • Gold (yellow, white, or rose) – Rich, warm, and luxe. Great for most skin tones

  • Silver – Classic, cool, and versatile

  • Platinum-style finishes – Sleek and modern, ideal for sensitive skin

  • Mixed metals – Perfect for the indecisive (hi, it’s me) or someone who loves to stack and layer


Make it Personal (Seriously, It Works)

If you want to level up your gift, add a personal detail. A name, a date, a sparkle that feels like them—it makes it so much more special.

Some cute ideas:

  • Personalised name necklaces (a major fan favourite right now)

  • Charm bracelets or necklaces with initials, dates, or meaningful symbols

  • Cubic zirconia rings with their favourite colour stone or a subtle engraved message

  • A piece they can build on—like a charm necklace that evolves over time

I once gave my sister a name necklace with her daughter’s name on it—she hasn’t taken it off since. It’s become her everyday thing, and it still makes her smile.


Get the Size Right (Or Go Adjustable)

Nothing ruins the vibe like a ring that doesn’t fit. If you’re unsure, adjustable pieces are your best friend.

  • Rings – Sneak one they already wear and compare it to a ring size chart online

  • Bracelets – Adjustable styles are ideal if you don’t know their wrist size

  • Necklaces – Shorter lengths (16–18”) are elegant, while longer (20”+) make more of a statement


Set a Budget and Stick to It

You don’t need to break the bank to find something beautiful. There are stunning pieces at every price point.

Some rough guides:

  • Under £50 – Delicate studs, simple chains, charm bracelets

  • £50–£150 – Personalised name necklaces, cubic zirconia rings, or layered charm necklaces

  • £150–£500 – Eye-catching statement jewellery, sets, or mix-and-match collections

  • Luxury – Bespoke, high-quality plated pieces with standout design

Small but meaningful always trumps flashy and thoughtless.


Presentation is Everything

Even the most beautiful piece feels a bit meh without good packaging. It’s all about the little touches.

Ideas to upgrade the moment:

  • A pretty box with soft lining

  • A handwritten note (seriously, don’t skip this—it’s powerful)

  • Wrapping it inside another gift or using a creative box-in-box surprise moment

At Orla Lily, every order comes gift-ready, with an option to add a little personalised message—because that finishing touch really does matter.


Ready to Find The One?

Jewellery gifting doesn’t have to be overwhelming. With a little thought, some attention to detail, and maybe a bit of Insta stalking, you’ll find something that hits the mark—and then some.

Whether you're after something dainty, bold, or beautifully personal, we’ve got you.
Explore the collection now and find the perfect gift that says it all without saying a word.

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